Yadda ake kwanciyar aure
Akwai siffofin yadda ake kwanciyar aure ta jima’i kala-kala wanda ya kamata duk wani mai aure ko kuma wata mai aure mu sansu, kuma ya kamata mu dinga ɗabbaƙasu wato mu riƙa amfani dasu a mabanbantan lokuta ba wai kullum a riga maimaita guda ba. Ko kuma ya kasance idan mai gida yazo wajenki da niyyar jima'i dake wato yana buƙatar cin gindi saidai kawai ki kwanta sharaf kamar wata katifa, ko kuma nace kayan wanki, saidai yahau samanki ya gama duk abinda zaiyi ya tashi.
Mata masu aure a gaskiya ya kamata a dinga sauya yadda ake kwanciyar aure, domin ƙarin danƙon daga mai gida, ta amfani da salo iri-iri, kamar tsotsan burar maigida wasa da burar da dai sauransu domin ƙarin jindaɗin ki dashi kansa mai gidan.
Ga jerin hanyoyi na yadda ake kwanciyar aure domin samun gamsuwa da soyayya a gidan aure mai ɗorewa.
#Kwanciyar gaba-da-gaba ta kallon juna:
Ita wannan salon kwanciyar jima'i yadda ake yinta kuwa shine, Uwargida zata kwanta akan gadon bayanta sannan ta baje cinyoyinta wato daidai, shi kuma maigida sai ya kwanta akan ruwan cikinta suna kallon juna. Amma ya kamata maigidan ya ɗan dafa gado ko kuma shimfidar da suke kai, domin ya ragewa matarsa nauyi yayin saduwar.
Sai kuma ya zura ciyoyinsa ta tsakankanin nata cinyoyin sannan saiya janyo bulalar burarsa watau azzakarinsa ya soka cikin farjinta.
Wannan kwanciyar aure nada matuƙar daɗi da kyau sosai sannan kuma tana bawa ma’auratan ƙarin daɗi nayin shafe-shafe da gogar jikin juna. Wannan kwanciya ta rabu zuwa kashi biyu ne:
1. akwai kwanciya ta gefe ɗaya ta gaba. 2. akwai kuma ta baya.
1. kwanciyar gefe ɗaya ta gaba da gaba: A wannan kwanciya uwargida zata kwanta ne ta ɓangaren jikinta na dama, shima maigida sai yayi kwatankwacin wannan kwanciyar, ya fuskanci matarsa, amma fa dole ne sai matarsa ta ɗaga ƙafarta ɗaya sama kaɗan sannan maigida zai samu damar shigarta sosai ya sanya azzakarinsa cikin kogon gindinta.
2. Kwanciyar gefe ɗaya ta baya: a samfurin ita kuma wannan kwanciyar aure ana yinta ne tamkar yadda akeyin kwanciyar bangare ɗaya ta gaba, bambancinsu kawai shine a ita wannan ta baya akeyi (bawai kuma ana nufin ya saka azzakarinsa a ɗuwawunta ba). Wato abinda ake nufi shine zai koma ta bayanta kaga kenan basa fuskantar juna, sai ita uwargida ta ɗan ɗaga ƙafarta sama kaɗan ya luma mata kaciya ya shigeta.
#Saduwar zaune:
Yadda ake kwanciyar aure tayin wannan salon jima’i shine, oga zai zauna dirshan a bisa gado ko kuma kujera, yayinda ta kuma matar zata zauna bisa cinyoyinsa, sannan kuma saita raba cinyoyinta. Shima maigida ya ɗan buɗe gwiwoyinsa domin ya samu damar raba cinyoyin matarsa yadda ya kamata. Saiya shigar da sandar burarsa sannu a hankali ya soma tura gwatso cikin salo da iyawa.
#Kwanciyar Mimmiƙe:
Wannan salo na kwanciya ana yinta ne a yawancin lokuta idan namiji ya kasance mai ƙaramin azzakari wato burar oga ƙarama ce. Domin ita kwanciya tana taimakawa wajen matse durin mace, ta yadda zai kasance cewa komai ƙanƙantar azzakarin maigida zai gamsar da matarsa. Yadda akeyin wannan kwanciyar shine, bayan oga ya shigar da azzakarinsa cikin gindin mace, sai uwargidan ta haɗe cinyoyinta ta miƙe ƙafafuwanta, shima namijin saiya haɗe cinyoyinsa ya miƙe ƙafafuwansa yadda ya kamata, bayan kowanensu yayi daidai saiya soma zura wutsiya.
#Kwanciyar hawan doki:
Yadda ake kwanciyar aure irin wannan shine, maigidanki zai kwanta akan gadon bayansa sannan ya lanƙwashe gwiwarsa kaɗan, ta yadda zai iya ɗan ɗago cinyoyin uwargida da gwiwar, ita kuma mace saita buɗe cinyoyin nata ta rabasu tasa mijinta a tsakiya sannan ta zauna a kansa, ta ɗan kwanta kaɗan a bisa ƙirjinsa, daga nan saita dinga motsawa tana turawa gaba da bayan oga kamar ta hau doki.
#Kwanciyar goho:
ita wannan salon kwanciya tana matuƙar saka annashuwa yayinda ake yinta, wato a wannan salo na yadda ake kwanciyar aure shine mace uwargida ko amarya zata haye bisa gado, sannan saita sauta gyara kwanciya da tsayuwar ɗuwawunta yadda zasu buntsulo sosai izuwa gaban maigida, yayinda oga zai saita alƙalamin burarsa saita nufi durinta, bayan ya shiga uwargida ta shirya saiya soma buga gwatsoo a hankali har kuma...
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